Friday, April 29, 2016

365 Days!

May 1st 2016, is my one year mark that my feet have touched Mozambique. I am emotionally mixed about this; I am looking forward to returning home yet, I value being here.  Time goes by much slower here; I feel more like I’ve been here 365 days, rather than one year. So this day mixes my feelings between celebrations and relief.
The year has been mixed with intrigue and adjustments, nuances and challenges.  I have loved meeting new people and making friends; sharing interests and commonality. I have been intrigued with the culture;  funerals, weddings, the traditional healer’s drums at night, the chicken feet in the beans, the pounding of peanuts, the potage snack at school, the dusty roads, the swollen bellies, the acute dermatitis, the buildings in rubble from colonial times, the weekly market, the vendor boys that work all day in the heat for fifty cents. These impressions are carved into my mind.
Emotionally this adventure has also  been topsy-turvy, I have never felt so popular than when I  hear my name called so many times walking to the center as my heart often squeezes when looking at the kids and wondering what their future will be like.  They also make me think of my own children, Christian and Alycia, and appreciate where they are even though I miss them.
I swerve between counting down the months I will be home and hoping I have enough time to see some results from my projects. The Peace Corps’ phrase; “The toughest job you’ll ever love”, is accurate. 

All in all,  this year has definitely enriched my journey, thank you for sharing it with me.  xo  @bloggingabroad

Happy people


At a beach on the Indian Ocean

Making money

Wow! Where?

Boys with their homemade trinkets

Nothing but me and the dirt roads 

Oh my!

Spiritual Healers at a ceremony

Building from the colonial times

Endless laughs



Sunday Market



Friends preparing a corpse for burial

My favorite tree

Swollen bellies prevail


A traditional Corandeiro / Medicine Man

Dermatitis

There's always somewhere I can work

Saturday, April 23, 2016

Unexpected Good Signs


8:00 am:

The concept  of delivering a class on the ability of young girls to make life choices here in this small village is a concept from Venus. It is also the unexpected theme for my Saturday morning classes with young girls.
In two hours I will be sitting on my straw mats with 10 girls with a curriculum that is called “Choosing your Future”.  I look at this book and deep inside I roll my eyes. Honestly, in this small village, how many choices do they have? The majority of people in my village have never ventured more than 50 kilometers from here. Most of the parents never went past elementary school and started having children in their teens – young teens – 13, 14, and 15.
The topic of gender equality is on the top of our list; many Peace Corps Volunteers have organized groups of adolescents to introduce and guide them with this concept of motivating them toward a goal in their future.
So my class will start soon and I feel a bit stressed. These girls look up to me, and I feel like their Godmother from Venus; the underdog leader with a pack of puppies.  Aside from the very limited resources, the culture yet has embraced the concept of equality.  The roles here are defined, for a girl from a poor family there are very few choices.
The limits are staring me in the face; just looking in the 30% of female high school students is a huge indicator. Few girls are given the opportunities; the vast majority of girls are streamlined into a path without any exits.  They are given the same choices their mothers had: elementary education, marriage, and children. They often don’t even choose their husband and in many traditional homes here, they are one of many wives.
We have already discussed goals, and differences between themselves and their brothers. So today I will open up the idea of communicating their goals to their parents. 
Let’s cross our fingers. I’m sure they will like the cookies at least.



4:00 pm

The class was great!  15 girls looked at me like I was from Venus when I read this scenario of a 13 year old that was being matched to marry by her parents (my group ranges from 9-13 years old).  That was a good sign. We practiced on what a conversation with their parents would be like, and the cookie sealed a good morning!!  The seed is planted.

Here are some other pictures that I wanted to share:@bloggingabroad

This is a classroom/storage room in the primary school.
Kids watching a class on malaria.
Boys preparing a dance show.






Thursday, April 14, 2016

The Road Less Traveled

The Road Less Traveled    @bloggingabroad

A few weeks ago I had the opportunity to attend a training east of my village, in the Province of Gaza. The training was good and the location was beautiful.  With a full stomach of great food, I was thinking it couldn’t have been any better, until my counterpart asked if I wanted to go visit some relatives close by.

So right off the main highway, we walked down a dirt road, and I saw the real lifestyle of a Mozambican home.

Come walk with me.


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Visiting family




Daily chores

Cooking

Burning garbage

Storage

Cashews

Entrance to kitchen (cooking done outside)

kitchen

New widow with grandchild

Mandioca

Squash

Beans

Pet Pig






Home

Thatched roofs

bathroom


The family goat